Being Positively positive

When we want to do something, and we fail in that people say..

"STAY POSITIVE !!! "

But take a minute and ask yourself ..

"Am I thinking Poistive..?
How does that word translate to action?"

lets take examples and understand them better..

A person says "I don't like to be fat like this.."

If u take the above statement, the person clearly conveys the message to another person.. But does he convey to himself... ??

What I mean by this is.. when he says I dont like to be fat.. He is imagining himself to be fat..
This is once.. when he keeps on doing this.. it gets strongly fixed in his subconcious mind that he is fat.. and even if his wish is otherwise the force from the subconcious mind won't let him to do so..

thats why we hear people saying.. " I WISH TO DO SOMETHING .. BUT I M NOT ABLE TO DO SO.."

But when he imagines himself to be lean.. that gets settled at all mind levels... Hence always imagine what you want to be.. and not what you dont want to be..

finally,

"POSITIVE THINKING SHOULD BE REALLY POSITIVE..."